Friday, 29 November 2013

Am in love...

How are we all doing? Hope you are having a blessed day?  I was having a chat with my hubby a couple of weeks ago about self esteem and self love. A lot of people talk about themselves with disgust and resentment. It's really heart wrenching when I see other people struggle with this issue because we are all beautiful creators. Most times we love other people selflessly and neglect our mind, soul and body in the process. I have come up with a few tips on How to boost your self esteem and fall in love with yourself again?

Always remember that no one is perfect but have you ever thought that the word IMPERFECT actually spells I'M PERFECT. What have you got to hide? We're all imperfect, growing, learning human beings. Be honest with yourself. There is a difference between being critical and being honest; learn to watch the way you say things to yourself and others when being honest.
  • Be responsible for yourself and for boosting your self-esteem. If others aren't telling you you're great, don't let it get to you. Instead, write a love letter to yourself telling yourself you're special, wonderful, and worthwhile. When you believe these things about yourself, others will recognize that glow of self-confidence and begin confirming your self-affirmations in no time!
  • Don't let people tell you what you are or what you should be.
  • Be yourself. Oscar Wilde once said with his usual wit: "be yourself; everyone else is already taken". As humorous as this might seem, it's a basic summation of the truth. Yet, you can't be yourself if you don't know, understand, and accept yourself first. Find the time to dwell upon what you value and take time to consider what makes up the essence of who you are.                                                        
  • Treat yourself at least once in a month and do more of what makes you happy. Go out with friends, get your hair done, get a manicure, etc. 

I hope these few tips will help more ladies to love and appreciate themselves more than they ever did. 

Have a blessed day...

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